Why the F not: A sofa at the dining table

This post may contain affiliate links. That means Mean Magazine could receive a commission if you click through. Rest assured we only recommend products we love. Thank you for supporting us!

eclectic dining room green sofa

Photo via Mend Design.

During this extended quarantine, many of us have reconfigured our homes to accommodate the never-imagined hours we’ve spent inside. We’ve gotten creative, sometimes out of necessity, sometimes out of the desire not to look at the same interior day in and day out. And our dining tables have become more essential and more used than ever before.

That means you might want to rethink your seating around said table. You probably want it to be more comfortable and more versatile. Sure there are banquettes and benches often found at the dining table. But what if you’re partial to something more flexible? Something that will double as place to lounge when you’re not entertaining? I submit the option of a good old, versatile, easy-to-find, sofa.


View this post on Instagram


A post shared by The Expert (@theexpert)

It’s an excellent option for a small space where rooms need to do double duty. It can also work for a larger room where you want extra lounging options or areas to congregate. Some can even to triple duty as a sleeper sofa!

But since couches aren’t usually designed for a dining table, it’s important to think through a configuration that will be practical and comfortable as well as stylish and measure, measure, measure! (Can you tell I learned this the hard way?) Also make sure the sofa doesn’t have arms that will trap your family or guests in their seats. Form over function does not fly when it comes to dining. Check out some great choices and suggestions below!

multicolor bohemian loveseat World Market

World Market Marlee love seat, $250 (was $500, available for in-store purchase or curbside pickup only)

A sofa at the dining table—things to consider


Sofas are typically lower than dining chairs, and you don’t want your guests to feel like little kids at the grown-up table. So be sure to measure your table height and consider how that will work with the sofa you have in mind. If it’s too low, try using casters on the legs, or perhaps an extra cushion, as long as it doesn’t get too funky aesthetics- or comfort- wise.


A couch will also usually be set back farther than a chair, and you don’t want an ab or arm workout during dinner (although that could be an interesting way to cancel out the calories you’re eating). And you can’t easily scoot in a couch. One solution is to add some pillows to the back that will bring your seat. Just make sure they’re firm enough to keep diners upright.Crate & Barrell banquette seating Crate & Barrell banquette seating, $2,200 (made to order, allow extra time for shipping)


This is not the place for a down-filled situation. You want firm cushions that encourage an attentive posture since people will be eating and working here, not watching Netflix (until later, maybe).


For obvious reasons, easy-to-clean fabric like leather (or faux) or microfiber will be the best choices for seating that will be used in the presence of food. Velvet is so tempting though.

Sofa, settee, loveseat, banquette?

When searching for a couch or sofa for your dining table, you may want to search for “settee” or “loveseat,” depending on the size you need. Usually, a settee is larger than a loveseat but smaller than a couch. A “banquette,” refers to usually-built-in seating against a wall. You can achieve basically the same thing by pushing a high-backed loveseat or settee against a wall in front of your table.


An armless piece is best for use at a table—It’s easier to scoot into your seat when armrests aren’t in the way. Armrest are also like collectors of errant food.

modular banquette set pottery barn

Pottery Barn modular banquette set, $300-$1,421 (on clearance with free shipping!)

(This post was updated on March 24, 2021)


    • Kristen
      March 24, 2021 / 8:02 am

      Glad you like!!

  1. Susan
    February 18, 2021 / 5:06 am

    I am so doing this. I have a bright yellow/gold tufted tuxedo couch I’m putting by my table! You guys rock! Thanks for the inspiration!

  2. Katie
    April 3, 2021 / 10:44 pm

    Sooooo helpful! Thank you for writing this!

  3. August 24, 2021 / 6:30 am

    I’ll try and measure my table’s height in comparison to the sofa. I was going to just get a sofa that fits in my space. But I’ll look for one that is a bit higher up too.

  4. December 16, 2021 / 9:47 pm

    Really great Thanks for sharing these websites. I Love t see and buy home decor products to decorate my home. I’m searching for a good Onyx Dining Table and I got to know a lot more things about it. So I really enjoy seeing your blog and your concepts are so impressive. you make a beautiful sharing blog.

  5. February 9, 2022 / 7:57 pm

    Thank you for sharing such an amazing article!

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published.